How has your HIV status affected your family members and friends?

My HIV has not really affected my family and friends. At first they were worried because of the stereotypes and negative information in the media about it. It has not been an issue for me until recently. I have just started on a medication regiment.

If I had a chance to make an HIV/AIDS program it would be an educational program that focuses on teenagers through college age students. It would consist of school outreach and empowerment programs that show them how to empower themselves and also get involved weather or not they have HIV/AIDS. It is very important that we empower the youth with information and self-respect so they can help stop the spread of HIV/AIDS.

The first ten years after I was diagnosed, I did not experience any problems. The medical services were provided by the Mexican health system, because I lived there. Exactly on my tenth anniversary, I became very sick and because of that and the slow recuperation, I lost my job, which was obviously the base of my economy. However, I receive a small limited pension. Seven years after that episode, I am finally starting to heal in that aspect of my life.

Having HIV has made me unable to work full-time and make the type of income I’m accustomed too. There has been some loss on a psychological level as well. I really feel like I’ve lost my identity. I went from being Louis to some person living with HIV.

Fortunately for me the financial losses have been minimal. I am insured and have not been on medications as of yet. I do not foresee any major loses to come. This is why I keep up with the issues about HIV and AIDS. I am lucky to live in a country that has people who take this disease seriously.

I would be lying if I said I “advocate” for a better future for HIV positive individuals. It’s been over 20 years of dealing with this condition and I would be hard pressed to offer a better future. Unfortunately it’s more than just an illness of the body. It’s an illness of society.

I tell people to go to their medical appointments regularly and adhere to the medication regiment 100% or at least 95% of the time. I also tell them to have long-term projects, exercise often, have a positive attitude when faced with challenges, maintain a busy social life, and to surround themselves with supportive family members and friends.

One of the ways I advocate for a positive future for positive people, is by taking part in the political process and making sure I vote. I also keep up with the issues and e-mail my senators and congress people on issues that are directly or indirectly involved with the well being of HIV-positive people and people who are affected by HIV.